In this life, ladies I had the opportunity to counsel, I normally tell them that praying or crying to God to give them befitting husbands is not a right prayer because men are equally praying to God to give them befitting wives
That is to say the only prayer that God answers is the prayer of befitting brothers praying to God to give them befitting sisters and vice versa. This is because God is a just God; you must be a befitting sister to expect -God to give you a befitting brother as husband.
In the same way, God will not give you a befitting wife if you will not be a befitting husband. It is therefore necessary to ask yourself “am I the kind of person I am expecting to marry as husband or wife”.
In other words, you must be a befitting wife material to expect a befitting husband or the man will abandon you within the shortest period of time.
Of a truth, I normally counsel single ladies that the cheapest way to get married is to pray that God should make them virtuous women. Yourself, you should equally strive to be a virtuous woman if you expect to get married in time.
As a lady, once it is confirmed that you are a virtuous woman; men will fight or struggle over whom to get your hands in marriage. The reason is that as Proverbs 12:4 puts it, “A virtuous woman is a crown to her husband”:
Also, Proverbs 31:10 says, “Who can find a virtuous woman? For her price is far above rubies”. So ladies, it is not the size of your Kilimanjaro you are carrying behind.
Nor is it the size of your massive apple you are carrying on your chest that makes you a virtuous woman. More so never think that being hot or wonderful on a bed that makes you a virtuous woman.
I said this because most ladies are projecting their physic or beautiful appearance but wonders why men are not looking at their direction for marriage.
Talking about being a virtuous woman, I know what I am saying because as a man, I know what it means to marry a virtuous woman. In other words, I am glad to be wearing a crown having married a virtuous woman.
As a woman therefore, whether married or single please take a time and read what the Bible said about a virtuous woman in Proverbs 31:10-31.
Particularly verses 11-12 of the above passage which says, “The heart of her husband safely trusts her; so he will have no lack of gain. She does him good and not evil all the days of her life.
Yes, a virtuous woman, the heart of her husband safely trusts her, and she does him good and not evil all the days of her life. Obviously, in the mind of God, a virtuous woman fulfills the essence of creating woman as seen in Genesis 2:18 where God says, “I will make him a help meet for him”
That is to say, in the mind of God, the main essence of God creating woman is to be a help meet for a man. As a woman, you should realize that the essence for which a woman was made was not to satisfy a man $exually but to be a help meet.
This should be the most important thing in the mind of every woman. In other words, ladies projecting their $exuality or how $exy they are, are missing it. A man can be fully satisfied $exually but still feel lonely.
The Almighty God after creating a man observed that the greatest need of the man was a companion, to solve the issue of his loneliness. It is for that purpose that God said of all his creation that it is not good.
Please see it for yourself in Genesis 2:18 which says, “And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be alone” As a single lady, once you are a virtuous woman, men will find your companionship fulfilling.
The major reason why none of the men that you have jumped to bed and rocked them $exually could not accept to marry you is because none find you a help meet.
Still talking about a virtuous woman, Proverbs 31:25 says of her, “Strength and honor are her clothing; and she shall rejoice in time to come.” As a woman, can your clothing bring you strength and honor?
How can it bring you strength and honor when you are dressing like Jezebel and not like a virtuous woman? Please ladies hear and hear me well, you can’t be dressing like Jezebel or a prostitute and expect a man desiring to marry a virtuous woman to ask for your hands in marriage.
In closing, I still wish to refer you to Proverbs 31:10 which say, “Who can find a virtuous woman? For her price is far above rubies”.
Stop proving to men that you are a cheap article by your lifestyle, but rather prove to them that you are a virtuous woman.
Virtuous women never lack men to marry; rather, they are the one that makes choice of men to marry, because their price are far above rubies, and they are hard to find.
As a lady, men are observing you and waiting for you to prove to them that you are a virtuous woman. Please don’t disappoint them. Shalom!.