In our society today, it is the utmost heart desire of average couples to have fun and excitements in their marriages. However, and in reality, while some couples are enjoying their marriages to the fullest, having fun and excitements in their marriage.
For other couples, their marriages are nothing to write home about as they are like Tom and Jerry in their marriages, while the marriages of some others have crashed or at the verge of collapse.
I wish to ask you, how has your own marriage faired since you got married? Is your spouse happy that he or she married you or is he or she regretted ever marrying you?
Please be assured, no matter the situation of your marriage currently, it can be turned positively around as to start having fun and excitements in that marriage. All that is required from the both of you is the knowledge of what to do to make this happen.
In other words, no matter the current state of your marriages, both of you hold the key that can activate fun and excitements in your own marriage if you will diligently implement the following.
The first thing I want couples to know is that most at time, their actions are responsible for the actions of their spouses. So the first thing to activate fun and excitements in your marriage is for both couples to strive or ensure that their actions make their spouse happy and fulfilled.
It is the happiness of your spouse that fuels your own happiness. For instance, there was a man I know, one day I visited his office and observed that he wasn’t happy that morning. On inquiry, I came to know that he had quarrel with his wife early morning.
The reason for the quarrel was because the wife denied him $ex. I sat the man down, telling him that the actions of the wife were as a result of his own actions. On my advice, the man came home that evening and called the wife and apologized for their quarrel early morning.
The evening of that day, he took her to a nearby joint and bought pepper soup and drinks which they ate and drank together. That simple incident made the wife to be happy that in the night it was the wife who reminded him that she was ready for him if he still wants to have $ex.
According to the man, he said that he enjoyed their $ex relationship that night more than he ever used to do since they got married. He said that his wife was mourning in ecstasy during the action as she equally enjoyed the $ex.
Also, on my advice, the man took her for shopping in which he bought so many items for her. Since then, that was the last time he ever has to beg the wife for $ex as the wife always get ready for him on demand.
There as another case of a couple whom the man filed for divorce. When I heard of it, I invited the man and his wife to my house and after entertaining them by my wife, I had a fruitful section with them.
To prove that my section with them was fruitful, the man applied to the court withdrawing the divorce case, and I am glad to report that schooling them on marriage principles, they are today having fun and excitements in their marriage.
Another key to activate fun and excitements in your marriages is to spend quality time together as to build intimacy. There is no couple that can enjoy their marriage if they are not intimate with each other.
On this issue of intimacy, some men are gene rally guilty of not having time for their wife and family. As a result, wives of such men are very lonely in their marriage. As a man, I wish to inform you that your wife cherries your intimacy with her more than anything.
If therefore you want to activate fun and excitements in your marriage, then create and spend quality time with her. Creating and spending quality time with her proves that you care about her.
On the part of the women, what are your actions that are scaring your husband’s that made them to be keeping late night events? One day, I met one man by 10 pm when I was going for all night prayers.
On inquiry, I observed that the man was running away from home. According to the man, he said that he don’t want to die before his time signifying that his wife was quarrelsome type.
I am glad to report that after I had some pep talk with his wife, advancing her on things she needs to do and what she should avoid doing. The wife visited me to tell me that the man made love to her the previous night which he did not do in more than six months.
In other words, after the woman learned of what to do and what not to do in her marriage, the husband equally stopped keeping late night. The two are today living happily as husband and wife.
All that I am trying to point out is that there must be a peaceful atmosphere between couples before they can think of excitements in their marriages. Also, couples who wish to enjoy excitements in their marriages must learn to bathe together and as well as eat together.
As a man, you must learn to create time and take your wife out for dinner or for site seeing from time to time. Couples should equally learn to shower each other with gifts. That helps to activate fun and excitements.
If couple whose marriage are in the court seeking for divorce could be restored and are today enjoying fun and excitement in their marriage, you too can turn your marriage around and activate fun and excitement in your own marriage.
