Getting a man of your dream walk the aisle or altar with you to say “I do” is one of the utmost desires of most ladies. Many had tried all they knew, yet men seem not to be interested in marrying them, some get frustrated in the process.
I wish to point out, boldly, that one of the reasons some ladies fail to get men to march to the altar with them to say “I do” is because they are ignorant of what it really takes to get men of their dream to be interested in marrying them.
To get a man of your choice or dream to marry you, you must necessarily pay some kind of prize because it is said that nothing good on earth comes free, not even in Freetown.
You pay a price to get what you want as it is not free and the price you pay is doing things that could get you attracted to men.
In the first instance, the ladies must have in the back of their minds the desire of what kind of man they want to marry as a husband. That will enable them to work on themselves and package themselves to ensure that such men find them befitting for such men to have you as a wife”.
To have the kind of men they desire to marry at the back of their minds, they need to do this by asking and answering to themselves this question. That question is,“Will these kinds of men they desire to have as husbands, will the men equally desire and be willing to accept them the way they are as their wife”?
It is unfortunate that some ladies fail to realize the reasons some of them are yet to marry. The reason is that they are expecting much from the kind of person they desire to marry, yet they fail to meet up themselves for such men to desire and accept to marry them.
For men to desire and accept ladies for marriage, such ladies must have attracted such men. However, the result is that the kind of men such ladies desire to marry doesn’t see these ladies as fit or befitting for marriage.
The number one tip, therefore, is to “prove to men that they are the best for them to have you as wives”. So ladies should strive to make themselves fit and befitting for such kind of men they are desiring to have as husbands, for them to locate such ladies and stay with them until ” I do” is the final word.
As said earlier, some ladies behave awkwardly, desiring to marry the best and finest of men. However, they behave and dress like foolish old village girls that men of such class don’t find them befitting to have as wives.
To be the best means that you need to pay the price of working on yourself, you need to locate areas of your life that need improvement and work on them. It may be your structure or shape, facial look, character, or dress.
Believe me, there are areas of your life that need a total overhaul, others need a facelift while others may need just a minor touch to make you fit or befitting.
What I am saying, therefore, is that, before a man will look at you and abandon thousands of other ladies and desire and accept to marry you. It means that you may have made a strong impression on that man that he feels convinced that you are marriageable and the best for him.
It is very obvious, that once ladies complete working on themselves and are now fit for men to find them, the resultant effect will be that men will be struggling to be the ones to get them for wives.
You will discover that they will be the ones to make the choice of whom to marry among several men seeking their hands in marriage. Don’t try to push yourself on men, but rather do things and behave yourself to prove to him that you are the best for him among all the ladies he knew.
The number two tip is “realize that marriage proposal is not marriage yet”. One of the costly mistakes some ladies make is that after they made little impression on men and men proposes marriage, instead of continuously working and improving themselves, they relax and start misbehaving by trying to push themselves on such men.
Some go to the extent of parking into the man’s house.
Along the line, another lady makes a greater impression on the man, proving to the man without all reasonable doubt that she is better than you. As a result, the man makes a u-turn about you and may eventually abandon you and go for the other lady.
Quite often, the lady who eventually takes over may be the lady’s best friend who she may have taken to the man’s house. So as you start working on yourself and men start showing interest in you, this is not a time to relax or stop but a time to do more in improving yourself.
Remember, the target is to prove to men that you are the best for them among a thousand and one other ladies.
To be continued, watch out for part two.
