Of a truth, some ladies are still single today because men did not find them worthy of marriage. In other words, men see them as not marriageable, so as a lady if you happen to possess the qualities of a marriageable woman; men will struggle to be the one to get your hands in marriage.
However, if you are lacking some of these qualities, men will find it difficult to seek for your hands in marriage. As a lady, you should ask yourself if you possess these qualities mentioned below.
The first of such qualities is good understanding: Even the Bible has this thing to say in proverbs 13:15 “Good understanding giveth favor: but the way of transgressors is hard”.
Also proverbs 3:3-4 said, “Let not mercy and truth forsake thee: bind them about thy neck; write them upon the table of thine heart: So shalt thou find favor and good understanding in the sight of God and man.
Putting the above verses together, one can see that it is good understanding that proves if a lady is marriageable or not. You will know a lady with good understanding by her lifestyle.
In other words, you equally know ladies without good understanding by their lifestyle. Men generally consider your lifestyle when choosing the women they wish to marry. So women, who lack good understanding talk, behave and dress anyhow.
Talking about life style, generally, responsible men wish to marry responsible women and irresponsible ladies show the level of their irresponsibility by the way they dress.
This day in our society, irresponsible ladies pose naked and post the pictures on the net, others step out without wearing bra thereby exposing their breasts. Such actions may make them popular but prove that they are not marriageable materials.
Again, a lady who is considered to be wise and prudent never lacks a man to marry her. The only problem she has is making choice of the right man to choose because men do struggle to be the one marrying her.
That is why men are generally happy when they marry wise and prudent ladies. Even the bible has this to say in Proverbs 19:14 “House and riches are the inheritance of fathers: and a prudent wife is from the LORD”.
The next is submissiveness: when men prove that a lady is humble and submissive, they rush to get her for a wife why as they tend to run away from her if she is domineering and contentious.
The book of Proverbs 21:19 says “It is better to dwell in the wilderness, than with a contentious and an angry woman” and Proverbs 27:15 “A continual dropping in a very rainy day and a contentious woman are alike.
Moreover, when a lady proves that she is a virtuous woman, men struggle who to get her for marriage while as they run away if they confirm that she is clamorous. Proverbs 9:13 “A foolish woman is clamorous: she is simple and knoweth nothing”. Also, Proverbs 31:10 says, “Who can find a virtuous woman? For her price is far above rubies”.
Ladies who are assets and not liabilities is another quality of ladies who are marriageable. When men confirm that a lady is industrious, more or less an asset, they will rush to marry her compared to when a lady is nothing but lazy and a liability.
Finally, it is said that one of the gate ways to a man’s heart is through his stomach, so when men confirm or prove that a lady knows how to prepare good or delicious meals they rush to marry her while they tend to run away for marriage from ladies who don’t know how to cook.
In summary, as a lady, the reason why you are still single is that you did not measure up to these qualities while as you will have the problem of making choice of the number of men who will be seeking for your hands in marriage if you possess these qualities.
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