That couples enter into marriage relationships with the high hopes of enjoying a blissful and exciting marriage is a known fact that cannot be denied. Also, some singles enter into one relationship or the other with the high hopes of walking the aisles with the man or woman concerned.
During those early years, you hear such sweet words as, “I love you so much”, and “you are the best thing that ever happened to me”. You are the sugar in my tea, and you are the only one I love, etc.
But after some years, here comes the bombshell “I don’t love you anymore”, “my marriage to you was a mistake”. When we hear the above words from his or her mouth, initially we may think that he/she was joking.
However, the next moment, he/she would say that he/she is going through a divorce or we see him/her walk away. It is then that it is done to us that the above words were a reality, and we got so devastated or think that our world was coming to an end.
In reality, the above is what happens and quite often, we got into asking what may have happened to his or her `love’. What actually happened to what couples thought existed between them?
The truth of the matter is that it is the love among couples that had grown wings and flew away. So in this post, we shall be looking into what causes love between couples to fly away and what to do to prevent it.
The first such reason is taking our spouse for granted: Love is like a living thing or a garden; it needs to be well attended to, nourished, or watered if it is to grow. A living thing that is not growing may die sooner or later.
Regularly, some couples fail to realize that they are directly or indirectly responsible for their partner’s love flying away. Before that happens, one of the major reasons is when you take your spouse for granted.
Couples who took their spouses for granted, never bother to find out if they are meeting up with the needs of their spouse as long as their own needs are met. In other words, they don’t bother to know whether their spouses are happy and fulfilled or not, whether they are meeting up with their responsibilities towards their spouse.
Such couples fail to take action concerning issues their spouses used to complain about, but always find a way or reason to trash such issues. So couples need to avoid taking their spouses for granted if they don’t want to see their love for each other drying up and dying off.
Secondly, love among couples do fly away when couple neglect to build intimacy with each other: One of the things that make the love among couples grow is intimacy. But when a couple is not building intimacy or fails to be intimate with each other, love for each other always atrophy and dies.
An example is the case of a popular world-renowned preacher, Pastor Chris to be precise. The pastor and his wife were living apart for years, with no time for intimacy with each other. No wonder why the wife woke up in 2015 and went for a divorce.
I strongly believe that if they had been living together, love and intimacy between them won’t have atrophied, and their marriage won’t have failed. So to avoid falling into the same mistake, you should do everything to build intimacy with your spouse.
Talking about intimacy, there are men, even though they are living together with their wives are lonely and hurting inside because such men have no time to be close or build intimacy with their wives.
As a result, a vacuum is created in the heart of some such women. With time, other men may come along to fill such a vacuum, which makes the heart and love of such women to be diverted.
When the heart of your wife is diverted, her body presence may still be with you, but her heart and love may belong to another man. So you should endeavor to live up to your responsibilities towards your spouse.
Apart from intimacy, one other thing that causes love to atrophy is when couples are not bonded together in $exual intimacy. There is a special bond of love that existed when couples are living up to their responsibility of satisfying each other $exually.
That is when couples are enjoying a better $ex in their marriage in which each of them reaches orgasm and is fully satisfied $exually. That is when couples are enjoying a better $ex in their marriage in which each of them reaches orgasm and is fully satisfied $exually all the time.
However, it is not normally the case, as there are situations in which only one of the partners gets satisfied. There are also situations in which couples are known to deny each other $ex.
Such couples, because they are not meeting up with their responsibility of satisfying each other $exually, the time will come when love among them will atrophy and die.
In other words, all that I am saying is that it is when love among couples atrophy that it flies away and never returns. If you really don’t wish to see the love your spouse has for you to die or fly away, then you should endeavor not to take your spouse for granted.
Do everything to create intimacy and as well do your best to live up to your responsibility of satisfying each other $exually all the time. So if you don’t want to see the love your spouse has for you to die or fly away, then you should endeavor not to take your spouse for granted.
You should do everything possible to create intimacy and as well do your best to live up to your responsibility of satisfying each other $exually all the time. Until I come your way again, stay committed to your marriage and relationship and when you are well committed to your marriage and spouse, love for each other will never dry up or fly away. Shalom!