Are you married or planning to get married, right? I wish to ask you this personal question, “how do you feel if your marriage should be counted among the failed marriages?”
Some may tell me, “God forbid. Yes, I pray that God will forbid your marriage from crashing or being counted among failed marriages. However, I wish that you have the question at the back of your mind, as no marriage is totally immune to failure.
I said this because there are marriages that started very well and were flourishing for a while. Obviously, the love between such couples was like Romeo and Juliet. However, after a while or after a few years, you hear that such marriages had failed.
I am bold to declare that the success or failure of any marriage all depends on the actions and reactions of the couples involved. That is to say, on the personal relationship of the couples involved in such marriages.
What I am trying to emphasize here is that in marriages that succeeded, it is the couples concerned that worked for such marriages to succeed. Couples should therefore be committed and work or ensure that their marriages succeed.
On the other hand, for marriages that failed, it is equally the couples concerned that allowed their marriages to fail. That is to say that it is, couples involved in any marriage, are responsible for the success or failure of their marriages.
What we often observe in any failed marriage is that couples involved in such failed marriages are quick to trade blame on each other as to who is responsible for the failure of such marriages. I wish to point out that no one person is responsible for the failure of any marriage, as both couples are responsible for the failure of their marriage.
In this segment, therefore, we shall be looking at the top reasons some couples allow their marriages to fail. As you read about these reasons, please ensure that you don’t allow your own marriages to fail or be counted among failed marriages.
One singular reason that couples allow their marriages to fail is when couples allow their love for each other to get sour. Love is said to be the lubricant that lubricates every true marriage. When couples, therefore, allow their love for each other to get sour, the end result is that there will be frictions in their marriages as there will be no longer any lubrication in such marriages.
Moreover, another reason or way couples allow their marriages to fail is when couples abandon their responsibilities to each other and to their marriage. When couples are no longer committed to each other and to their marriages, the end result is that after a while, their love for each other will get sour.
In addition, marriages of selfish couples seldom last as their marriages get crashing. One major manifestation of selfishness among couples is that you always observe their accusations and counter-accusations against each other.
Secondly, w their marriages fail because of their individual selfishness. Selfish couples, you always hear them claim that they have irreconcilable differences. What brings about irreconcilable differences is their inability to accept the opinions of each other, as each insists on having his or her way on any issue.
Another cause of love among couples getting sour is $exual maladjustment, which oftentimes results from a lack of $exual commitment of couples to each other. It is $exual maladjustment
$exual disharmony or maladjustment among couples may appear very minor, yet it is responsible for couples allowing their marriages to fail. Most of the time, it is a lack of $exual commitments to each other that often leads to infidelity among couples.
One other reason some couples allow their marriages to fail, which some may see as very minor, is the lack of intimacy between couples. As I said earlier, some couples are not committed to each other.
It is the result of their non-commitment that they have no time for each other. There is no marriage that succeeds without couples involved in such a marriage that does not create quality time for each other in order to build intimacy.
Show me couples that are not intimate with each other, and I will show you marriages whose love between such couples will surely get sour. Remember what was said earlier, couples allow their marriages to fail by allowing their love for each other to get sour, which will surely cause such marriages to surely fail.
This is the end of our discourse. I really hope that you have gotten one or two things from this post? If yes, please, I request you to kindly share this post with your friends and followers on social media.
I am really counting on you to share this post and other posts with your social media followers. Until I come your way again, “Please do everything possible to ensure that you don’t allow your marriage to fail” or be counted as one of the failed marriages. Shalom!.
