To get the man of your choice walk with you to the aisle to say “I do” is the utmost desire of most ladies even though the majority lacks the knowledge or secrets of how to go about it.
The failure to get men to marry them is actually causing some of them sleepless night as some has even resorted to do some unimaginable things even advertising themselves on social media
I laughed so much reading one of such advertisement sometime ago in which the lady in question in that advertisement went further to make a promise of how much she will pay the man that will accept to marry her.
Of a truth, some ladies, even though they have resorted to doing unimaginable things just to get men to marry them yet men seem not to be interested in looking at their direction for marriage and some are getting frustrated in the process.
However, some other ladies are rejecting men as there are numerous men seeking for their hands in marriage. As for you, what is your own situation about the issue of marriage?
I wish to say first and foremost that the starting point to getting a man to indicate interest in marrying you is to prove to men convincingly that you are marriageable.
I said this because some ladies that are clamoring to marry will only marry to unfortunate young men who may in the long run abandon their marriages when they realize that they got married to non-marriageable ladies.
Secondly, some ladies don’t know what they want in marriage. In other words, the kinds of men they are expecting to come for them for marriage are far above their station.
For that reason, they never consider that men equally have choice or dream of the kind of ladies to marry as wives. One secret therefore is to bring yourself to met up with the choice or dream they have of the kind of ladies to marry.
Most importantly, some ladies are making wrong prayers, asking God to give them husbands. God never give husbands to ladies but gives wives to men.
What I said is the gospel truth as it started with the first man on earth Adam. It was God who brought a wife to Adam. Please see what Proverbs 19:14 said, “House and riches are the inheritance of fathers: and a prudent wife is from the LORD”.
As a lady therefore, the prayer you should pray is that God should make you a prudent woman. Once men confirm that you are a prudent woman, they will even fight to be the one to get your hands in marriage.
Apart from God making you a prudent woman, pray that God should clothes you with the garment of favor as He clothed Esther. Please see what happened in Esther 2:15 and 17,
It says, “Now when the turn of Esther, the daughter of Abihail the uncle of Mordecai, who had taken her for his daughter, was come to go in unto the king,
She required nothing but what Hegai the king’s chamberlain, the keeper of the women, appointed. And Esther obtained favor in the sight of all them that looked upon her.
And the king loved Esther above all the women, and she obtained grace and favor in his sight more than all the virgins; so that he set the royal crown upon her head, and made her queen instead of Vashti.
As a lady, if you lack the oil of favor, even your makeup and cat walk will be irritating to men while as if you are clothed with God’s favor, even your limitation will be overlooked.
Like the story of Esther above, she was an orphan, a slave and village girl yet because God had clothed her with the garment of favor, which made her to obtain favor in the sight of all them that looked upon her.
Summarizing what I have said, as a lady, you must know what kind of husband you desire to marry. You should package yourself to meet up with the desire of such men to marry you.
You want to have a godly man as husband, prove to men that you are a godly person. Also, some ladies behave awkward, they desire to marry the best and finest of men yet themselves, they behave and dress like a foolish village girl or a prostitute.
I wish to say that problem with some ladies is that they expect much from the kind of person they desire to marry, yet they themselves are providing so little or nothing.
As a result, fail short of the standard and could not meet up with the kinds of men who sees such ladies as not fit or befitting them for marriage.
As a lady, the secret therefore is that you should prove to a man that you are the best for him for marriage that you will be an asset to him and not a liability.
That is to say that you should prove to men that you are marriageable and virtues or prudent woman and not a contentious and an angry woman. The book of Proverbs 21:19 said, “It is better to dwell in the wilderness, than with a contentious and an angry woman”.
Lastly, you should pray that God should cloth you with favor as He clothed Esther. Once the oil of favor comes upon you, you will be the one to make choice of the person to marry.
See you getting married to that man of your choice very soon. Shalom!