Of a truth, getting men desire and willing to marry them is what most ladies desire and crave after. Some ladies by their age are getting frustrated in life if men are not coming forth to marry them.
For some, they have done all they could do yet it seems nothing is working. One such ladies committed suicide some time ago because she found herself still unmarried at the age of 30.
In other words, it is a reality that there are ladies who will never marry in this life while some may marry late in life and some will just end up marrying anybody for husband.
In many years of my counseling ladies, I have come to observe that there are ladies even though they desire to marry, the way they are going about it is rather scaring men and potential husbands away.
In other words, the majority of ladies are living lifestyle or doing things that are scaring potential husbands away while the greater numbers are those who lack the knowledge or secrets of what to do to get men to marry them.
This post is therefore for ladies who sincerely desire to marry and as well as a desire to know the secrets of what to do to get men to marry them. However, before I go ahead to itemize these secrets, it is necessary to point out a bitter truth or facts that you should have at the back of your mind if you are a single lady.
That fact is that when it comes to the issue of marriage that some men can be deceitful. You are sure to land into the hands of such men when you show before men your desperation to get married.
You know such men by their desperation to know your pay package or your monthly income without showing real commitment to marrying you. Such men, the moment they tell you I want to marry you, are the moment they may want to take you to bed.
Such deceitful men, they may be after your money and you’re satisfying them sexually on the bed. I am pointing out this because some ladies are left shattered and heartbroken after such men dump them after milking them dry and sexually ravaged them.
Having said that, the first secret I wish to mention is that every man has the picture of an ideal wife he wants to marry. A man will only accept to marry you only if you meet up with that picture. You should live a lifestyle pleasing to potential husbands.
I, therefore, advise that you try and be yourself in a relationship. Let the man see you for who you are in your appearance without your make up, in your dressing and lifestyle.
Secondly, ensure that your character synchronizes with your appearance. In other words, let the content synchronize with the packaging. So you must take steps to fine-tune your character or lifestyle:
Even the bible in Proverbs 11:22 has this to say “As a jewel of gold in a swine’s snout, so is a fair woman which is without discretion”. In other words, no matter how beautiful you may be, you need to fine-tune your character to ensure that nothing is scary about your character.
Most importantly you must be aware that most of the problems that prevent ladies from getting married are far beyond them because they have spiritual con-nation, so they should use spiritual means to handle them.
To this end, if you sincerely wish to marry but men are not showing interest in seeking for your hands in marriage. Therefore you need to take spiritual steps to ensure that no spirit husband is blocking your way of getting married to physical men.
Of the truth, this is the first suggestion I do give to ladies who desire marriage but no man is coming forth or who keeps having constant disappointments in their relationships.
And the only way to be sure is to do what I call spiritual checkup. By spiritual checkup, I mean to present yourself for deliverance to confirm that there is no spirit husband. Of a truth, many people don’t believe in spirit husband, yet it is spirit husband that is behind or is what is preventing some ladies from getting married.
Besides, you need to ensure that there is no curse or spell operating in your life and family. What some ladies don’t realize is that this physical world is controlled by the spirit world, yet some people refuse to give heed to things of the spirit.
What I am trying to point out is that the reason why you have not been married may be a result of a curse or spell in your family or upon your life in particular.
The solution lies in what I suggested or pointed out earlier which is presenting yourself for a spiritual checkup to confirm that no spell or curses are operating in your life or your family in general.
Another secret some ladies don’t like to hear is that some so cheapen themselves by jumping into bed with men who have not shown enough commitment to marry them. Also, some ladies may never marry in life because of a man they have slept with.
In other words, I wish to ask who broke your virginity?. The folly thing is that some ladies treat sex as an animal instinct without knowing that there is much spiritual connotation to it.
I wish to point out that you may be in a big soup if the man who broke your virginity is an occultist. This means that you may have been under terrible manipulation by that man as there is a soul tie with any man that sleeps with you how much more the person that broke your virginity.
In other words, you must be careful of your jumping to bed with any man and you must necessarily take steps to break any spiritual link between you and men who have slept with you if you want to marry in this life.
I am telling you a very deep secret that you may not have heard before. The marital destiny of some ladies is gone because a man ended up collecting fluids from their private parts after he might have finished sleeping with them.
Others may by mere sleeping with you collect your marital destiny even without collecting any fluid from your body. The solution still lies in presenting yourself for a spiritual checkup to confirm.
Another secret you need to take note of is that there are men who will only marry a lady who knows how to cook. If you don’t know how to cook, it may be hard for men to desire to marry you.
On this issue, my advice is that you take some private time and go to catering school to learn how to cook some delicacies. Even if you will engage a cook after marriage, the fact that you know how to cook is an advantage.
Again, if GOD has blessed you as a single lady, it is of importance that you be cautious or careful the way you display your wealth or success. The reason is not far fetched, if men are intimidated by your wealth or success, they would be afraid to approach you for marriage.
That is to say, men will want to relate with you because of your money but will never be committed to marrying you.
My lady, if you sincerely take the above steps, before long we shall be celebrating your marriage as men will surely be struggling to get your hands in marriage this year.
In other words, instead of begging men to marry you, you will be the one choosing who to marry.