In our society today there are ladies who are beautiful to behold, some of them by their social media followers, they command large followers and as such, they are highly celebrated in our society.
However, some of those ladies are still single; they are still single because no man has accepted to marry them. Men are not looking at their direction because they are not marriageable.
Some of these ladies are so desirous of getting married as some of them are in their late 30s. Due to their desperation to get married, some are now boldly advertising themselves for marriage, yet men are not looking at their direction for marriage.
The reason men refuse to accept to marry them is that they are considered not marriageable. An example is one Dayo Amusa who wrote, “My snail is sweeter than yours. I need a snail eater” Dayo Amusa reveals.
Some of those ladies who manage to get married, their marriage never last as men who got married to them soon abandon them after marriage.
That is the major reason why the marriages of many Nolly Wood actresses had failed marriages. The reason has been that such ladies are confirmed as not marriageable, and they know it.
Actually, and as said earlier, some of those ladies, they command large social media followership. Some of these them, when they consider their beauty and social media followers, they wonder or could not imagine why men are not showing interest in marrying them.
One folly aspect is that some of those ladies feel that they could fetch husbands as a result of their beauty or their $exual prowess on the bed.
Please, my lady, beauty is not edible as one musician puts it, that you are beautiful is not a guarantee that men will rush to marry you.
As a lady, you must possess other qualities if you are ever expecting to get any man to marry you. In other words, you must possess other qualities that prove to men that you are marriageable.
When you say ladies are not marriageable, the following are the major attributes of such ladies.
In the first instance, such ladies are always proud and arrogant: Yes, these ladies, by reason of their beauty or achievements which may have entered their heads, they become proud and arrogant that they threw respecting men to the wind.
Some of those ladies, because of their pride and arrogance can talk and abuse men anyhow. Some of these men are potential husbands, and as such men get scared that they will never want to have such a lady for a wife as their pride will never allow them to be submissive to their husbands.
It is a known fact, men whether rich or poor generally want to guard and preserve their ego, they will never accept a woman that tries to puncture their ego.
So my lady, if you are abusive in nature especially against men, it is evidence that you are not marriageable. Men may relate with you for other things such as $ex but not for marriage.
Secondly, talking about not be submissive, one thing you should know about ladies who are not marriageable is that they will never accept to be Submissive to men, not even their husbands.
Moreover, some of them are so domineering in nature that they don’t accept what other people say, not even men. Such ladies, they always insist on having their way always even when they are wrong.
By the way, they never accept that they are wrong. In fact, they always insist and ensure that their own opinion must prevail. That calls for reasons most Nigeria Nolly Wood actresses have failed marriages.
Marriage thrives by women been submissive to their husbands as there are always crises in marriages where wives are not submissive.
So, my ladies, when men see and prove that you are domineering and will never accept to be under any man.
In other words, when men confirm that you would never be submissive to any man, they will run away and will never raise the issue of marriage with you, you are not marriageable. The reason has been that two captains never man a ship.
One other thing you need to know about these ladies that are considered not marriageable is their Promiscuous Lifestyle:
There are ladies, by their lifestyle; they are so promiscuous that they jump to bed with any man with reckless abandon.
Yes, it is a known fact; no man will ever like to marry a woman he will be sharing together with other men.
For instance, I was waiting for a friend of mine who flew from outside my Country and requested to see me in the hotel where he intends to lodge.
That day, I was sitting near a group of five men in the waiting room of that hotel when one lady in her late twenties came in with a man. One of the men, when he saw her commented that that lady was so sweet on the bed.
Others chorused the same thing as they all claimed to have slept with the lady. If you are a man looking for a lady to marry, will you accept that lady for a wife?
Obviously, ladies that possess that spirit of promiscuity, men tend to run away from them for marriage. Such ladies can’t stay with one man, they are not marriageable because even if men marry them by mistake, the marriage may not last and will surely break because they will be going out with other men.
Lastly, one other major attribute of women that are not marriageable is ladies that the Bible called contentious women that are not able to keep a home.
Such contentious women, the book of Proverbs 21:9 say, “Better to dwell in a corner of a housetop, than in a house shared with a contentious woman.
It is a known fact; contentious women are known to send their husbands to their earlier grave. It is, therefore, very obvious, no man wants to die before their time, so that is the reason they run away from marrying such beautiful and celebrated ladies.
Yes, you are beautiful and celebrated but prove to men that you are marriageable or you will never taste marriage till you die. Till I come your way again, remain marriageable. Shalom!