We are still discussing on the series understanding the mysteries why some ladies may marry late or may never marry at all. The Part 3 of the series was discussed last in which we discussed direct self inflicted or self imposed curses.
In part 4 of this discourse, we shall still look at other instances of how ladies directly attract direct curses upon themselves, which later hunt them and prevent them from ever getting married.
As a lady, the essence of these examples of what happened to others could give you a clue to the issues in your own life as what you are suffering may be similar to what the ladies in the story suffered.
This is another true life story and it is about one lady I came to know. The said lady, while she was about 16 years of age schooling in secondary school in her village. The lady had a friendly relationship with a young man who is a welder by profession in her village.
The said welder was spoiling her with money and gifts. When the lady was 20 years of age, the man proposed marriage to her which she accepted. But the next year, the lady got admission to read Banking and Finance in the university.
Their relationship continued and the man was helping to finance her university education, with the high hope of marrying her after her graduation.
It happened that immediately the lady graduated, she secured a job in a commercial bank. It was then that it was done on her that she would no longer marry the welder since their class and social status were no longer compatible.
You see, her present situation was justified, but the problem was that she wasn’t guided and made a mistake of her life by breaking the relationship with the man outright.
It happened that one sunny day, the man was standing on hot sun waiting for a vehicle when the lady passed him in an a condition car with another young man who had shown interest in marrying her.
The man was so bitter against the lady that he opened his mouth and said that if he can’t marry the lady, that no other man will marry her. The lady later got disappointed by the later young man who left her and married another lady.
It wasn’t only that, but she started having a series of disappointment from men over the issue of marriage. I came to know the lady because I was in the bank where she works the day she burst into tears.
The summary of the situation was that it was a text she got from the young man she expected to marry her. The man had sent her a text that she should not call him again, that he was done with her.
As said, I picked interest in the case and the following day I visited the lady in the bank and gave her the phone number of a pastor friend of mine. She phoned the pastor and fixed an appointment with him.
The day of the appointment, the pastor invited me. While probing her background, it was then that we came to know about the young man she broke his heart. We then guided her on how to go about it, how to get the man to lift his curse on her.
To cut the long story short, I told the lady that as long as that curse is in place, that she will never marry. The lady was willing to sacrifice any amount to buy her way out.
The end of the story was that the lady release 500,000 to the pastor who went and told the welder that he has somebody that want to start welding business and that the man should help him to buy everything necessary.
The pastor bought two new welding machine, and told the man that the person will be his apprentice for six months. He demolished the man’s workshop and build new one. All cost 220,000 leaving a balance of 280,000.
The pastor packaged the 280,000 in an envelope and invited the lady. The man was so furious when he saw the lady in his workshop. The lady knelt before the man and started weeping.
It was then that the pastor told the man that the two new machine was his own, the new workshop and additional 280,000 was courtesy of the lady. The pastor told the man that the lady has come to ask for his forgiveness.
The welder with his whole heart forgave the lady, lifted the curse by praying for the lady that she should go and marry the man of her choice. The folly thing about the story was that the lady got married within 6 months to the man who made her to shed tears openly in the bank.
In other words, the man came back and reconciled with her. As a lady, have you learnt anything from the above story. You should look behind and try to recollect if there is any man you broke his heart or a man you insulted that may have placed a curse on you?.
All that is required of you is to go to the man to apologize and seek for his forgiveness. Once the man forgives you, the effect of the curse will be broken and marital breakthrough will surely follow.
End of part 4, please watch out for part 5.